'Synopsis of a Phrase: You Don’t Know What You Have Until It’s Gone\r'

'â€Å"You take in’t get it on what you work until it’s gone” Like an octogenarian saying â€Å"You don’t know what you go against experience until it’s gone”. For close to concourse these argon effective words, but for others it’s sincerely much than a life changing phrase. To me this phrase argon more than just words. I question myself both time I see or ensure well-nigh get’s abandoning their children’s. I really stop’t recognise what comply crosswise their masterminds to father a life changing decision. every woman who has the blessing of having children’s should be grateful, because not every woman has the glory of giving birth.I can’t comprehend leaving behind a part of you like if it didn’t exist, that is just outrages. scarcely t herefore over again life in some government agency or somehow it comes back and haunts you, it’s all about karma. This is wher e the old saying of â€Å"You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”, kicks in then it’s too former(a) to try to regain what you had back then. As I grew up as a teenager I always had in mind that I valued to have a boy first and then a girl as my own children. Well, idol heard my wishes and do them true, but not intentional that later on in my life I was qualifying to wish that I hadn’t made that petition.I had my son at age 17 and my miss at age 19, long time passed by and solely no more pregnancies came along. I was divested as strong as my husband we wanted to have more family. App arntly it just wasn’t going to sink I was diagnosed with PCOS (Polycystic Ovarian Syndrome). The possibilities of getting pregnant were in the midst of 2% to 5% which let’s be honest, â€Å"Not enough”. Pretty much I become infertile, but I had set my mind if these are Gods wish let them be. I was already so grateful in having my two kids. I’m not going lie I whitewash had that wish of becoming mother again back in mind.I have a child who had a beautiful miss two yrs ago. I was hoping for my sister to change for good, since she was more into going out with friends, boyfriends, and anything relate to being irresponsible. The first year seemed to be okay even though she still went out. In the beginning of the second year she started to recoil about having her daughter. She would say, â€Å"I wish I have never had you”. How can she possibly say this, she is completely an â€Å"innocent little girl” who didn’t communicate to be brought to this world. I spoke to my mother about this situation.I simply couldn’t let this go on. My mother said, â€Å"I give not let this conk again”. My mother did actually speak to my sister, she apparently didn’t like that so she banded me up and said, â€Å"I’m leaving the house and I’m giving the baby away to so meone”. I said â€Å"No you are not”! legislate her to me, I said. My sister answers back by saying, â€Å"Well, come for her now or I will give her away”. So I eagerly remaining to my mother’s house. I had to tell my sister, that I hope you never ever regret what you are doing. This is when I brought up the old saying, â€Å"You don’t know what you have until it’s gone”.Some sidereal day you will be begging for the forgiveness of your daughter and this is when you will visualise that what you did was wrong and it will be to late. At the end I tried to understand why she took this decision. What was going thru her mind? I just can come with an answer. I’ve tried every possible method of getting pregnant and here she comes and leaves her daughter like nothing as if she never carried her in her stomach for 9 months. By the way I was present in the baby’s birth. It was wonderful reliving the moment when I gave birth to m y children.Now I’m going thru the moment of perceive my niece being abandoned by her insensitive mother. This really breaks my heart by seeing my little niece looking at for her mother and not finding her. To me this kind of people should not have the blessing of being a mother, if in some way you can call them mothers. While other women try and wish they could be mothers. We should have more conscious in what we do and the consequence that later in life will bring us. We should treasure what we currently have and not wait until it’s too late to realize what slip away from our hands. Life is to short to make wrong decisions.\r\n'